SPANKING: Should we use it or not? Opinions are strong and varied. Make your decision and opinion informed ones. I've read it and have my views, however, it's up to you to make the decision for your household. Click here to read a report on what research says about spanking and other corporal punishments and their effects (short term and long term) on children.
Has your child's behavior become "uncontrollable"? Has the loving relationship between you and your child suffered as defiance, conflict, and blaming rear their ugly heads? Do you find yourself pleading with your child or entangled in loud arguments? Perhaps you find yourself avoiding discussion of important issues or "stepping lightly" because you're afraid of your child's reaction.
You'll find lots of good advice here and elsewhere, but the best material I've ever found is shown below. Originally, I was turned off by the glossy advertisements, but when I reviewed the multimedia program, I saw authentic, reality-based, how-to-do-it strategies for reclaiming youngsters who are placing themselves at risk for poor life outcomes. I watched the demonstration and discussion of highly effective strategies for ridding the household of behaviors that interfere with family functioning and the display of the love felt for each other.
"Total Transformation" is a comprehensive program that demonstrates what to say and how to say it in order to once again become the guiding influence for your now errant youngster. This program allows discouraged parents to develop the skills to be assertive, not hostile or weak. For more information, click on the image below.
WATCH THIS SPACE FOR: A series of podcasts by Dr. Mac on "Positive Parenting Practices"; Information on evidence-based nutritional supplements for youngsters with various behavioral challenges (hyperactivity, etc.); Packages of research-based interventions for the home; and more this Fall/Winter (2010/2011).
